Being stuck in life

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For those of you feeling stuck in your life, maybe it’s time to shake things up. Feeling the emotions of frustration, self-judgement and so on will keep you feeling just that. Why? Because experiencing not having what you want, creates more of those thoughts. Chances are you are doing many things in the same predictable and autopilot way. So what’s your plan?

Say hello to that voice inside your head and acknowledge that part of you and the many parts of you and give them thanks. Give thanks to your greatest teachers, for all those experiences, for all those conversations with you. Acknowledge their participation in your life that has made you who you are today. Now start changing part of your routine like taking a new route to work. This will force you to be more aware of what you are consciously doing. The focus of becoming more mindful will create ripples into other aspects of your life.

Let’s say you are spending countless hours in meditation trying to create new things in your life. Then the thoughts of frustration emerge when you come back to reality and realise that your creations are not in front of you. You experience more lack of things, which leads to hopelessness, which leads to being more disconnected from what you want. Guide your thoughts to a picture of your plan and live those feelings.

Open your heart and think and feel the emotions of gratitude, love and respect. You want that energy radiating off your body. Connecting to that field of energy makes you less prone to look for things because you will feel like you already have them. What you are doing is creating a vibrational match between your personal energy and some new positive possibility. As you focus your energy on your plan, you will see synchronicities in your life because like attracts like, it’s a universal law.

By having a plan and utilising tools like meditation and commitment, you will create what you want. However, your intent should not be on the outcome, your intent should be on an effort to sustain a positive vibration. Once you start getting frustrated in anxious traffic, you will become disconnected from your intention and automatically slip back into past emotions. Old habits will resurface and nothing changes.

If this message sounds all too familiar, then pull out a clean sheet of paper to write down what you want to create. For example if it’s a new relationship you are seeking, then write that word in the middle and at the top of your page. Draw squiggly lines around the word “relationship” and continue the line down the centre of your paper. These squiggles represent your electromagnetic field. On the left side of your squiggles, list all the qualities of who you think you are, eg, love animals. On the right side of your lines write the associated emotions, eg, sensitive. Now repeat this exercise for your future partner. Be realistic with your lists, ask yourself or a friend, would the personality of you be attracted to the future personality of your partner?

After you have completed these lists, put them into a bowl and burn them. You are symbolically sending the lists to the universe, for your guardian angels to bring to you your soul mate. Now the key to the whole exercise is that you need to forget about the whole exercise and just get on with life. As you are getting on with your life, make a conscious effort to stay in the awareness of love, respect and appreciation. Your angels are composed of energies of awareness and you want to stay connected to them because you are asking for their help. Your guides need to see that you are being stuck in life and will help you.

Coincidences, synchronicities, and new opportunities that show up in your world do not appear by accident. You create your destiny by what you focus on with your energy and your words. Where you place your attention is where your energy flows. You need to show your mentors, like your angels (with or without physical bodies), that you are very serious about your creations. They will see your plan, come out of the woodwork and be more than delighted to be part of your success.