This life of yours is the only game in town.  The question is whether you want to live your life consciously or unconsciously.  You embarked on this journey before you were born.  Your birth was an indication that your journey had begun.  For most of us we tend to live our life reacting to the effect of our experience.  Invite yourself to be proactive and be the cause of your experience.  Consciously be aware of what is happening around you.

Everyone can love everything they do the moment they understand what they are doing and why.  The actions of your body are reflections of your state of being.  As a soul you are here on earth to experience your life as you choose it to be. There may have been many times when you have said ‘I don’t know’ and yet you still have to make a decision.  What if you made the wrong choice?  Sometimes your actions are without reward or approval or even without anyone noticing your achievements.

How you look at something will create how you see it.  Your perspective creates your perception.  When you resist a thing like your emotions you grant them life and make them real.  The more you resist your drama the more you plant it firmly in place.  For what you resist will persist.  If you sincerely look at your grief, you will see it for what it is and it will slowly disappear.  How you are being at any given moment will produce your experience.

The sole purpose of your soul is to evolve.  The soul does not care what you do and neither will you when you pass over to the other side.  The soul sees the whole life and death process differently.  When the time has come for the soul to make the decision to leave, nothing the body can do nor the mind can think that can change the outcome.  The dense part of your physical body dies and disintegrates and like a butterfly emerging from a cocoon, you change form.  All your life you think you are your body and you think you are your mind.  It is at the time of your death that you really find out who is in control.

There are many reasons why we form relationships.  Many people do not think consciously about the why, except there must be some internal need or desire otherwise the union would not be possible.  You may enjoy going through relationships like water, or to fill a gap in loneliness or maybe just to relieve boredom.  You may even stay in a relationship because you think you have to and live in quiet desperation.  Truth is relentless.  If you want the tools for a long term relationship, you need to place some thought as to why you entered into it.

If you want your life to take off you need to imagine your life the way you want it to be.  Ask yourself what it would feel like to be living your highest vision?  Look at the differences between where you are now and where you want to be.  You need to apply some mental and physical effort to monitor your every thought, word and action.  And to look at the things you have been doing unconsciously to sabotage your life.

There is no karmic debt that must be repaid. As a soul you are not obligated to do anything. However, you did make a decision before you were born as to certain things you would like to experience this life. The desire to create these experiences hinge on previous choices you made in past lives. Karma is more of an innate desire to achieve greater things based on the past. What you are now experiencing is a measure of that past.

We are always in the process of creating.  We have no control over natural catastrophes, but in observing them, you decide who you are with regard to them.  How you react to an incident influences your experience and your ability to take control of your life.  Only when you can accept responsibility for all of your life, can you achieve the power to change part of it.

Love is often regarded as the highest medium of communication.  When the time has come to pass over to the other world of spirit, loved ones already deceased will show their presence to you.  Your loved ones passed will find a way to comfort and reassure you that they will be there to greet you if you want them to.  All the wisdom you have collected this life and those souls you wish to greet you at the door of Heaven is at your command.  At the moment of death you will know that you are not the body, nor the mind.  It is your soul that has control of your life agenda, of who you are and what it is you wish to create and experience whilst you have a physical body.

There are four personality types that we use to navigate life and to communicate with our spiritual guides.  We all have these spiritual tools but will use one as our main means of communication.  The Inner Knowing type is an outstanding manager, requiring a sense of control and has a prophetic nature.  The Intuitive type is strong in leadership and needs to be excited with challenges.  The Visionary type often sees details missed by others and display strong empathetic tendencies.  The Feeler type enjoys creating with their hands being very patient and will go at their own pace. 

Your psychic ability is your intuition, sixth sense and inner knowing.  We are all psychic but some of us chose not to use it.  Psychic power is about tapping into a larger truth and sensing a different energy.  You may get an intuitive hit and not act on it, or a hunch but chose to ignore it, or an inspiration or dream but you’ll let it pass.  Trust your first impression and act on what you know or let your mind or your fear talk you out of it.

Most of us at sometime have had a thought in our head, ‘I don’t know what I am doing!’  When we think about a problem, we know we are trying to seek a solution.  Try not to think once in a while and ‘just be’ with the problem.  Simply focus on an awareness that a solution to your problem has already been created somewhere out there.  Every single moment you are being something.  Just be patient, clear your thoughts and allow the answer to surface for you. 

Whatever you are experiencing, good or bad are judgements made in your mind.  However, if you are stressed right now, it may not be important to you as to why you are feeling this way. Yet you know that until you break down the segments on how a thing has been created, you cannot change it.  So you know that until you heal the thoughts that created the pain, you cannot move forward to create who you wish to be.

We have all experienced many losses throughout our lives.  Sometimes we are not accustomed to the emotional upheaval that accompanies it.  If the loss was deep and traumatic, it will have changed your life forever.  Your whole world will never be the same.   We can experience a wide array of emotions from not caring and being on edge, to feeling angry and sad about everything. One minute you can feel okay, then in the next moment you can feel devastated without warning. If we did not go back and forth emotionally, we would never have the strength to find peace in our loss.  Tears are one of the many ways we can release our sadness and help us to heal.

Love, the lasting experience of life, the essence of relationships and ultimately the only thing we can really give to one another.  For most of us in our adult years, love is often recognised as a response to what the other person will do for you.  From our childhood memories we form the romantic ideal that we think we know the meaning of love.  We hope we will meet that someone special that will sweep us off our feet and make us feel whole and wonderful and we will live happily ever after.  We have a vision of unconditional love until we are woken up to the reality of a broken heart or a not-so-romantic life we once thought.  We unknowingly place conditions and expectations on family and friends if they want our love.

For most of us life reveals itself one layer at a time.  Despite all the wisdom that is out there you may still wonder about the life you are living.  So you search for guideposts and insights to understand yourself at a deeper level.  You look to each other for suggestions on how to best get through life.  And if you are lucky, you have a personal relationship with your God and yourself on a holistic level.  So how can you live holistically and relate to that source of wisdom out there in the universe. 

Most of us think of happiness as a reaction to an event.  Sadly winning the lottery or eliminating the wrinkles did not give us the lasting thrill we were searching for.  Yet we keep looking for things to give us the joy in life.  We fail to see that true happiness does not depend on what is happening around us.  In fact it has all to do with our state of mind and taking responsibility to the commitment of being happy.

August brings in new energy and a kind of restoration of life.  There is a feeling of rebirth, excitement, a brightness in the air that wipes away the last residues of last month’s bouts of gloominess and self-doubt.  You want a change, a challenge, some goal toward which you can direct your enthusiasm.

All the things we desire to invent begins with an idea of some sort.  This is the moment of conception when we give birth to a new thought.  The mind takes a look at the idea and examines it minutely. How we perceive it and evaluate it in our mind will determine how we experience it.  We say to ourselves “Is this a good idea or bad idea, is this functional or dysfunctional, is it possible or is it impossible, shall we do it or not do it and step back.”